Please don't assume I didn't.TB_Infidel said:Please don't argue this point when you have clearly not checked google scholar like I suggested as attraction between humans is anything but subjective - and this has been proven.dogstile said:Actually, they pretty much are the most subjective thing ever. What you find attractive may not be what I find attractive after all. That's subjective enough for me. What you like depends on your race, your background, your upbringing, your own moral code, etc.
And the officers comment was stupid because it's dangerously close to blaming the victim. He should have worded it better rather than said a statement that sounds annoyingly close to "well, obviously its the clothes you wear, thats why you get raped!"
The thing is, the officer did not blame the clothes, he just said it was one of many factors and that you should try to do everything possible to help yourself. The fact that so many women are screaming about it makes me wonder how self destructive women have become in our society. If you are given advice, then ignore it for no reason, it normally shows that the person is sitting on a bag load of issues.
http://scholar.google.co.uk/scholar?hl=en&q=human+attraction&btnG=Search&as_sdt=0%2C5&as_ylo=&as_vis=0
See! Totally did.
Look, the thing you're not seeming to realise is the very nature of something being attractive IS subjective. If you can't see this then ask yourself this. Is everyone attracted to the same thing?
I mean, I personally don't enjoy massive breasts, but I know some people who do. That right there proves its not the same for everyone, therefore, subjective.
And its not that I don't agree with what the officer said, but its the way he said it. It sounded offensive and its pissed off a lot of people. Maybe next time he'll think about how he says it.