Steve Hughes is talking about people being "offended". I haven't seen anyone say you can't say "rape" because someone's going to be "offended".Helmholtz Watson said:Steve Hughes talks about people overreacting to words [http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9tn2EhGK5ok]
I realize that people associate ideas with words, I just disagree that some words are not ok to use in trash talking.
As for what you and I have heard, when I have played Halo or COD and somebody killed a large number of people without dieing themselves, I have heard people say that they "just committed a genocide".
And, once again, we're having a conversation about "rape" and you're talking about "genocide". They are different words, with different meanings and concepts, and different emotional consequences. If you would like to start up a debate on the relative merits and consequences of "genocide" in trash talk, then I will gladly engage you in a space that is dedicated to that purpose.
But it's still a different word, and its appropriateness must be determined independently from the appropriateness of other words.
Way to be inclusive.Helmholtz Watson said:I would say that if hearing "I raped you" on Xbox live is too much for a person, then they shouldn't be on there to begin with because I can't imagine how a person would deal with killing virtual people in a game like COD or Halo.Susan Arendt said:It's not about offending, it's about hurting someone, on a very real level. What's more important to you - your use of the word, or not making someone relive trauma? What do you value more - saying "I raped you" on Xbox Live, or not giving someone nightmares?
That's what it comes down to, really. This isn't about someone's delicate sensibilities, this is about the fact that a single word can actually cause someone emotional and physical pain.
EDIT:wow, its very nice to "meet" you! I didn't know that you guys actually read the forums.