Finally some one on this thread that knows what the heck they're talking about. Everyone else seemed to avoid the question asked completely and gave random excuses as to why no one picks them for a scrim.
It's always funny to read a comment from a casual gamer stating that the "Professional/hardcore" is hindering their gameplay some how by doing nothing more than ignoring them completely despite blowing them up with their favorite exploding goodness when enjoying a nice pub sprawl.
Golden rule? (and this doesn't go to the person I quoted because they understand this thing) If you don't enjoy playing on a higher level other than leaping blindly into the first server that reads 29/30 people playing then don't! No hair off our chests. Back when I did strategy for this sort of thing I made sure to leave people who didn't find this sort of gameplay fun, out of it... Not being mean to them of course, because I didn't find it reasonable to subject a player to a style they didn't prefer when I knew they weren't going to have fun with it.
Though it always baffled me when one would come up and ask me why they never got in on that action and I explained that very thing to them and they still some how tried to make me out to be the bad guy. So I threw them in the next scrim to see how they liked it and they still tried to make me out to be the bad guy because he didn't want to listen to my suggestion that he and one other flank a position to throw the other team off guard and toss the game 100% in our favor, but instead wanted to rush into an area filled with what would lead to him respawning very quickly and filling the ventrillo, teamspeak whatever the hell with curses and swears as annoyingly as he could because of it.
Though after the scrim was over (we still won if anyone gives a tootsie roll to a diabetic,) I figured as much as it would be to say "Told you man" I asked him if he wanted to be put on roster for the next scrim, and I was told to Eff off! I tried, but whatever. That's the point of scrims, to try new things before a match is set up in a league, ladder, whatever.
Though once you fail to realize that this sort of thing is more than just "Take content away blah/blah/blah" and that it revolves around 100% team work and not instantly trying to fill your screen with explosives, fire and as many body parts as you can count in between respawns, and then take the piss out on us because we enjoy the game differently than you do, (meeting and working together with other gamers, meeting other gamers and blowing their knobbly bits and ears off, etc, etc)then I worry at the thought that some one might actually try to start an intelligent conversation around you for the fact that you yourself might explode before your toob grenade does!
This post is not a personal attack on the casual community, but hopefully one that will enlighten you on what the hardcore community is actually about, because misconception after misconception it just makes you want to smack some one after a while.
Hardcore gamers are not lonely fat nerds who spend every waking hour perfecting the best way to bullets travel from point: A (your gun) to point: B (that guys head over there.) In fact, and please read this slowly... A lot of us live a rich and joyful life outside of the computer! Getting to know my fellow clan mates back in CoD4 days... Or atleast days where I played a CoD game, we always shared stories about our work, personal life, etc, etc, and to what may surprise you, we are no different than anyone else. We were all friends from different parts of the world with different personalities and lives coming together to play a game we all enjoy together.
What also may be surprising to you, is that although those rules apply to scrims and matches... They don't affect you personally! Yes we do come into pubs now and then, and yes we do sometimes use weapons out side of the rule set in those pubs and have fun, but to nibble on our ears because we don't do it all the time is just silly. Also I always figured that occasionally coming into a pub with rule set in mind for MYSELF ONLY only enhanced my skills as a solo player for being able to headshot the guy shooting 1 hit kill awesomeness in my face.
They're definitely not a noob for enjoying the game that way. They're just creating a challenge for me that might help me in the field of gameplay that I personally enjoy... If you can dodge a wrench, you can dodge a dodge ball.
It's not about being pissy that most of the weapons can have a tendency for cheapness. It's about sitting down with 4 other of your buddies in a game and taking on 5 other buddies in a battle with set agreed rules that everyone follows up on to make sure that the battle shows which team is better at performing a task together than the other without the ability of running in and exploding, but through "tactical" simulated warfare.
Before anyone says anything about how the rule sets ban things that could be used with the mindset of tactical simulated kaplooey.. Let me remind you now that I didn't write the freak'n rule set, but the game hasn't been hindered in anyway in the mindset of having fun without them.
Difference between Casual gamers and Hardcore gamers? About the same reason why some people listen to rap and others like to mosh pit... What's fun for you is not fun for me, and vice-versa, but to make a personal judgement on me because of that makes me wonder about your self esteem.
Also before I forget, though some things I've said in this long dribble of a rant may sound harsh... It's not to be taken as such... It's my style of humor, and if you don't like it.. Then don't read any more of my posts.. Won't hurt my feelings!
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Meh looks like I failed to quote the person I wanted too. Oh well.. I was talking about the person who explained what hardcore gamers do with IRC and what not and what have you.