A Gaywood is both the most awesome and the most horrifying surname one could have.
B I play with two openly gay men, both of which mention it in their profile. Playing with them is just utterly hilarious, the jokes they make and the things they say is just so disarming I can't imagine they receive too much gay bashing on live. Neither has been suspended for mentioning their sexual orientation in their profile and I've never heard either of them complain about hate mail.
C In discussions about this in other forums I've posted exactly what I think of biggotry, homosexuals, and homophobia. I won't post it all here (mainly because according to all my friends it takes too long to get em off my soap box) but I will say this.
Hate mail and gay bashing will occur as long as there are stupid people and young teenagers alive, on xbox live there is plenty of both. But that is absolutely no excuse for Microsoft to humor these idiots, anybody with half a brain would be able to look at the "offensive material" see that all it is is a harmless statement of one's sexual orientation, and know that the complaints are just coming from teenagers abusing the complain function. suspending this woman over it is just shameful.