There is no secret, it is simply talking to them like you would anyone, not trying to trick her or use silly lines, just ask her about herself, talk about what you have in common, see if there is a spark, all the other nonsense is ridiculous. so rather than helping socially awkward guys get dates all these guys do is give them false hope that fake confidence will work (Which i'm sure does if you have spent loads of time in the gym).JoelChenFA said:If you have no problem getting dates, then what is your secret if not to be funny and confident (like the guys in the video)Tipsy Giant said:Sorry thought the whole "Couldn't be further from the truth" was clear enough, yes I get dates easily as I grew up with a best friend who happened to be female and three sisters, all taught me there is no difference between the way you should talk to each gender and their biggest annoyance is being treated differently.JoelChenFA said:It does not have to be vapid women. So do you have problems getting a date? Not sure if you are trying to say you are quite the Casannova in the last paragraph, or just doing a politician and not really addressing the point.Tipsy Giant said:We have been throwing some insults back and forth, lets leave it with you think these guys are showing nerdy dudes how to yield confidence and I think it's proof that no matter what you say you can pick up vapid women if you work out and YES have self confidence.Razada said:insult, insult & insult
I think self confidence is an every day skill though and that your enjoyment of a specific art form and your interest in discussing it (people here) does not prove your lack of self confidence, in fact people should realise that to seem confident you should actually be comfortable with who you are and if you think you need to resort to "tricks" or "pick up lines" you are failing yourself.
For the record:
I have no problems differentiating between friendship and relationship intent, you seem keen to paint me as some misinformed loser with no hopes of getting a date, where the truth couldn't be further from the truth, I am very happy with who I am and I simply only bother with women who can engage me mentally as well physically which I don't think is too much for anyone to ask for, regardless of whether they enjoy gaming.
Its true that women like cheesy. I literally snagged my fiance by texting her "I wish I knew how to quit you" in the middle of the night. She was attached at that time but turns out we were soul mates.
Its okay to have no confidence to talk to people, but there is no point getting jealous over others who can.
In reality the Jocks do beat us nerds in sheer number of dates, but they don't keep them forever like we do.
Jocks are Sports Nerds, everyone is nerdy about something, don't let your hobbies define you