Whenever my family decides that my life, my way of going about daily life, is everybody's business. As an example, (I am legally an adult, above 18) I was going out with a friend to see a movie, grabbed a scarf (red) and since I was wearing a purple shirt (with a closed green jacket over it) my mother and father decided that I do not care enough about my appearance. To be honest, I do not care so much that I would care which colour the little scarf had, the kind you just have around your neck, or even on your head, and thus upon hearing this my father said "Oh, you're being all tough".
Now, that is another thing that always upsets me; when people say "oh, how tough you are" whenever I calmly tell them that this is my business, and I rather not talk about it. Also the "chill out" when one speaks energetically about something, or shows interest in a topic...