There are good people who can be helped, who in being helped can later help the world. And there are people for whom you should not waste your time. I would have done the same. Disrespect me when you are healthy, and I will not help you when you are sick.-Drifter- said:So, you're not going to a charity event for a guy with cancer... because you don't like him? Ever heard of being the better man?
I think the better man makes a private donation to a cancer charity, perhaps even in the name of the person who is fighting cancer from your school. While at the same time does not attend the banquet and thus maintains their status as a man, not just a better one, by sticking to their principles. Cancer is a worthy cause, but assholes shouldn't have their medical bills paid out of sympathy from the people who he was an asshole too. Cancer does not make HIM a worthy cause.-Drifter- said:So, you're not going to a charity event for a guy with cancer... because you don't like him? Ever heard of being the better man?
No, no, no... The funeral of someone is for the friends and family of the departed. Even if you go there with the best of intentions, it's still dickish because you can't and never will morn the lost of someone you hate. I don't know why you were there, maybe to kill some time but The only circumstance where I would find it acceptable is if you were asked to be there to support someone. I may be a douche because I would flip the bird if I was in the OP's positions but at least I know there some things that are sacred.Kroxile said:Its not like I got up on a podium and announced my distaste for this person meaning only a few people knew I felt that way.Akalistos said:Really? I'm sorry but where's the fucking respect part in all of this? In fact, it's kinda hypocrite really when you actually hate someone, says so publicly then show to his funeral. It's right up there with pissing on his grave. People probably saw you and think that you were just there to laugh one last time over her death body, and coming from someone that generally doesn't give a shit for other peoples, I find it extremely cold.Kroxile said:A girl I went to Highschool with died in a car accident shortly after we graduated. I never got along with this girl or her petty little friends. When she died I didn't give no fuck, and i even told people as much, but I still went to the funeral because it was the right thing to do.
I know its hard to put aside your lesser emotions but FFS you are a human being, if you can't find the compassion at least have some fucking respect.
If nothing else you can always remind the guy what you did for him if he comes back being a dick later on down the road.
Seriously, rage more guy.
It means keep being mad, I don't care.Akalistos said:No, no, no... The funeral of someone is for the friends and family of the departed. Even if you go there with the best of intentions, it's still dickish because you can't and never will morn the lost of someone you hate. I don't know why you were there, maybe to kill some time but The only circumstance where I would find it acceptable is if you were asked to be there to support someone. I may be a douche because I would flip the bird if I was in the OP's positions but at least I know there some things that are sacred.Kroxile said:Its not like I got up on a podium and announced my distaste for this person meaning only a few people knew I felt that way.Akalistos said:Really? I'm sorry but where's the fucking respect part in all of this? In fact, it's kinda hypocrite really when you actually hate someone, says so publicly then show to his funeral. It's right up there with pissing on his grave. People probably saw you and think that you were just there to laugh one last time over her death body, and coming from someone that generally doesn't give a shit for other peoples, I find it extremely cold.Kroxile said:A girl I went to Highschool with died in a car accident shortly after we graduated. I never got along with this girl or her petty little friends. When she died I didn't give no fuck, and i even told people as much, but I still went to the funeral because it was the right thing to do.
I know its hard to put aside your lesser emotions but FFS you are a human being, if you can't find the compassion at least have some fucking respect.
If nothing else you can always remind the guy what you did for him if he comes back being a dick later on down the road.
Seriously, rage more guy.
Also... "Seriously, rage more guy". English isn't my native language, but it was taught in school since the third grade (7 years old). I graduated top of Every English class, play D&D and am part of the Escapist D&D group (meaning, Play in English), buy my books base on the original language of the author (I fear that the book lost some charm and humor when translated. Hence, half of my bookshelf is in English), watch TV and shows in English for the same reason (tho the dubber for Keanu Reeve does a fantastic job giving his character emotions). All this and I can't figure out what your saying there. You want me to enrage more guys? You want me to Rage about more guys? WTF!?!?!
It's for treatment aftercare, which I was kinda confused about as his family is like one of the richest in my school (His dad is an eye surgeon, his mom is a neuroscientist and his brother is basically destined to make a few hundred grand quite soon from a ridiculously good idea for an app on the iPod).BiscuitTrouser said:If its for treatment then i dont really have a lot to say to you... if its for some holiday i understand a lot more.
I'd like to point out that first, you probably wouldn't havejoebear15 said:I would have beat the shit out of you then accepted the consequences
I forgot to specify. It's money for an aftertreament that his family can already afford several times over. Look at top of this post for more info about that.katsumoto03 said:He. Is. Dieing.
... Begging "god" isn't something I ever have done nor ever will do.t3h br0th3r said:beg God for forgiveness for ever being that heartless and caught up in revenge.