My dude, this is a terrible take for so many reasons lol.Somebody explain this to me like I'm 5.
A movie or series falls into development hell and everybody assumes the project is an out of control fiasco nobody quite knows how to approach and will probably have to be "saved" long after the fact. Reshoots, reediting, new hires, etc.
A book in a series takes forever to come out, if it even does come out, and people eventually assume the author is either lazy or uninspired or distracted with another book or just high on their success - resting on one's laurels and all that.
If you're not served at a restaurant within a certain amount of time you assume either the waiter forgot your order or they mixed it or they're breaking someone new or the order was ruined at some point. Something went wrong.
But if a videogame Just. Won't. Come. Out. And years go by in complete radio silence disturbed only by the rare news that the latest deadline will not be met anytime soon (or at any specific point in the future) then the reaction is PLEASE TAKE YOUR TIME AND TAKE CARE OF YOUR MENTAL HEALTH DON'T OVERWORK YOURSELVES KINGS A RUSHED GAME WILL NEVER BE GOOD BUT A DELAYED GAME WILL BE AWESOME WITH EVERY DELAY YOU ENSURE THE AWESOMENESS OF THE FINISHED PRODUCT TAKE AS LONG AS YOU NEED I WILL PAY AS MUCH AS YOU ASK YOU DON'T OWE ANY EXPLANATIONS THREE YEARS AGO WAS A TOUGH YEAR.
What's up with that.
The short answer is that with video games we're dealing with two things:
1- So many shit games. And shit in a way where it's full of bugs and half-baked ideas. And when we see games like No Man's Sky and Cyberpunk that actually do get better with time and work, it is logical to conclude that more time spent would have made a better initial release.
(While it is a logical conclusion, it's not a correct one, but that is another topic entirely. We're talking about public reaction here.)
2- Crunch. It has finally gotten the attention about it being unfair and cruel and dangerous, and part of the concern for devs is genuine human compassion and we should be celebrating that not criticizing it.
One way your premise is wrong though is that it seems to imply that this attitude is universal. It is not- sure it's coming from some games media and I wager part of that is guilt for having participated in crunch culture but also just it's good business to not be seen on the wrong side of socially conscious issues. And that is actually a good thing- we should be nice to each other not mean!
Now for the other industries:
Wait staff: if you think that understanding and compassion are universal for wait staff, the service and food industries, I'm sorry but I don't know what world you're living in. Yes, many are understanding, but many are not. I mean... remember what was exposed during Covid? Did you really not know anyone who was dealing with the public, before during or since? People are fucking terrible and will pour all their rage into wait staff.
Books: Usually written by one person, maybe two, and an editor or two, that's it. There is no analog of "crunch." And honestly the only author I can think that is commonly made fun of for not finishing his series is George RR Martin and honestly I don't see anything wrong with that lol
Movies: When bad movies come out they are criticized and mocked relentlessly, so I don't really understand your point here. Development hell is not something I've ever seen sympathy, it is regularly cited as the fault of executive, producers, and egotistical directors and occasionally high-profile celebrity actors, and our schizophrenic attitude towards them is a whole 'nother topic.
But still this is a hot take thread so I appreciate you.