EMFCRACKSHOT said:
This is just fucking stupid. That kid will probably never be able to forget it. its not something anyone could easily forget. he is going to spend the rest of his school life being reminded of it by little shits that think its funny. He'll probably end up suffering from some severe long term emotional issues.
I'm sorry, but I got ten times worse than what this kid got in the video, and I got over it quick enough. Not everybody is as teflon-coated as me, I know, but I fail to see how anybody can turn around and say "Onoz .... he'll be like ... emotionally crippled and shit".
I'm sorry, but how exactly is this worse than the average sort of treatment a student gets from schoolyard/off-campus bullying during their 'tender years'?
I'm not a big fan of creating nanny-states where everybody treats kids like they're so precious and fragile that they should never feel threatened in their entire life ... till they face adulthood in the workforce where half the staff is getting downsized and only those that pull high KPIs will be spared the metaphorical axe.
Whether people like it or not, fortitude is one of those things that isn't genetically honed in us, and requires stress and turbulence to develop. This is why we have tests (both academic and emotional) and use these metaphorical 'obstacles' for our children to cross so that we can prepare them for a life in the workforce.
All children go through these tests. None should be spared the stresses of youth, and unfortunately bullying is one of those stressors that hone our abilities to dealing with aggressive people(whether physically or psychologically ... bullying comes in two forms and is not solely in the province of youth).
Children learn to 'deal'. Hence why I said the mother did the right thing. It's an important life lesson that you will be picked on, and the world isn't a nice place.
Sure the attack was unmerited, sure it was nasty and uncalled for. But the mother made a right judgement call and understood that life is not always fair and that to properly equip her child she realizes that judicial action is not called for.
It requires emotional fortitude to truly escape.
The emotional damage (whatever you
presume it may be) will not go away or be rectified by judicial action. Neither will the threat of being bullied. It merely
is. It's a stepping stone to adulthood and the impossible journey of being as good as one can be.
I believe age of criminal responsibility in the UK is 10. According to the law, thats the time when you should start to know better. in 8th grade you're what 14? By 14 you should definitely know better.
Right, I'm sure the UK prosecutes every single case of schoolyard bullying and fighting. And by 14 I knew jackshit. I knew not to be a little shit, and to sit down and actually do homework and actually dedicate myself to my labours so that I could prove I'm worthy of being paid more despite my age.
That's about it.
Core total of my knowledge base;
Work harder, study harder.
I was still very much a child and I call bullshit to anybody who claims they knew the world at 14 years of age. Though it's probably easier nowadays with facebook and stuff. You know, chat to three people across the globe and experience tidbits of alternative cultures... though I'd argue that isn't
'knowing' how the world operates.
And? its still a crime. There are plenty of criminal charges you can lay on a bully who beats someone up every night for three weeks. There are plenty of charges you can throw at these girls. the only reason they don't is because they're kids. This is completely wrong. They are clearly breaking the law and need to be punished accordingly. Is time we stopped letting them off simply because they are 'kids'
So ... what ... we should have half the children in the western world have criminal records because of misdemeanours?
Look there's law and order, and then there's accepted chaos. No matter if you posted a police officer every 100 metres of the length and breadth of a school, kids will still get into fights and do stupid things.
Hormones, primal aspects of dominance, pack acceptance ... etc etc.
basically you're telling kids not to be kids ... and I don't think that's healthy. I don't see why people should expect police to do a parent's job.
I certainly disbelieve (if only due to a teacher's primary responsibility; their Duty of Care) that a teacher would stand by whilst a police officer apprehends them on said misdemeanours. If you start treating children like criminals even before they're adults then all you're going to do is create greater social disharmony. You'll get children who are treated like criminals, and will then act like the criminals all others see them to be.