Eurgh. I knew I shouldn't have checked this thread.
For all those idiots who are going "if you're born with [genitalia] then you will always be [gender] in my eyes"- there is a PHYSICAL DIFFERENCE between the male brain and the female brain. And the brains of transpeople more closely resembles the brain of the gender they identify as.
So you're basically saying that, to you, the brain of ANY PERSON is less important to you than the genitalia of ANY PERSON. Because that's what you judge them on. So I hope you've got the sort of penis (or vagina) that magically appeals to everyone, because you're saying that's what matters, right?
I just want to clarify that if you have issues with dating any group of people, that's your call. If that extends to transpeople, fine, whatever, as long as you're educated and act like a decent human being about it. But these people don't seem to be keeping that particular line of thought JUST to potential partners, and are applying it to all transpeople.
To answer the question... I don't think so. I AM a transperson, one who has gone through a lot of other shit as well, and frankly, there's enough crap going on for one relationship here. I don't want to drag the other transperson's drama into this as well. I know from experience that too much crap in one relationship is an automatic self-destruct. It's not a physical thing, it's more that I know how difficult it is to go through, and I'd rather have a partner who doesn't.
To view the question from the OTHER side... It's a constant question for transpeople. Not only are they judged by random people they may have no interest in dating, but they've also got that constant knowledge that anyone they may ever be interested might be turned off dating them simply because of the way they were born. (And may even react with revulsion or violence upon discovering this.)
It's kind of a shitty situation to be in.