Smolderin said:
Zachary Amaranth said:
Please don't besmirch medicine to try and defend your feelings on the matter. Medically speaking, a MTF transsexual is not male. I'm not saying you have to want to date or even like transsexuals, but don't hide behind "medicine" to cover YOUR issues with it. That's akin to saying "scientifically speaking, the negro is an inferior species" to explain why you'd never date a black person.
You can't just slap "science!" on your phobias, sorry.
I don't know what you really trying to say here, but it doesn't change the fact that if you were born a male I am not going to date you....and I don't see how this is a Phobia, I am just not naturally attracted to individuals who are dudes. I am not going to regret that or see my viewpoint in a negative light if that is what you were trying to accomplish.
Yeah, gotta get behind Zachary on this one.
Your comment about science is incorrect because it depends on how male is defined.
If you mean they have XY chromosomes in their cells, then yes, you are correct.
However, typically male means "has a penis" and a MtF Transsexual has no penis, and is thus no longer medically male.
And, if you reject someone who is physically female, but genetically male entirely on the basis of their genetic makeup, which you can in no way see or experience aside from their current physical form, then yes, that would be homophobia. Hence why Zachary mentioned "your phobias" in his post.