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Blablahb said:
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It feels like it's just "HEY LOOK AT DEM STUPID FEMINISTS LOL". Just because some feminists are stupid and ridiculously extreme, doesn't make feminism stupid.
Then why are there so many of them and are feminists making no attempts to distance themselves from the sexist and hatefull ones?
thats like saying "Why are there so many kids on COD and the normal ones are making no attempts to distance themselves from the sexist and hatefull ones?"
They are, its just that they dont go around jumping of buildings screaming their heracy.

Feminism was a good idea.... when it started.
What it turned into now is worse than crusades.

back in the day being a little "voluptuous" was actually pretty attractive, it ment you were well fed and possibly upper class (just take a look at all those classical paintings) same with being pale when now a tan is considered atractive (when its kind of unhalthy in some ways)
sorry, i dont find being attractive to money fascinating, beucas back then fat = rich and thats the only reason they liked it.
Also, tan is out of fashion already, and im very happy, i hate tans :p

tyriless said:
if you believe in and support any of these:
- a women or men having to endure sexual harassment to maintain or progress through their career.

then you are feminist.
Wait, what? feminism, means both women and ment have to endure sexual harrasment? i think you missed something there.
as for your previuos "do with your own body" post. i dont think neither men or women should be allowed that. FOr example i believe that drug abuse should not be allowed.
 

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I'm pretty sure the absurd ones are being facetious, doofus
Are you actually certain of that? You call me a doofus, but you can't actually be sure how serious these people are. Yep that makes sense. You know what you could do is say you're not sure (I don't know either) and just leave it at that. But instead you put in an insult. Good post!

Wesley Au said:
Oh look people take 4chan images seriously. Time to bail out of the thread.
Any picture that is uploaded to 4chan is immediately invalidated? Do you know how silly that sounds? You should try reading it out aloud, just to ensure you understand.

You do realise these picture could have been taken...wait...let is sink in...from somewhere else? After which they were uploaded by a user to 4chan. And in fact these images were taken from somewhere else! A Facebook group.

http://www.facebook.com/groups/484004694975876/?ref=ts&fref=ts

Facebook groups like that.

They're all still invalid now aren't they?

SL33TBL1ND said:
So a tonne of your people fucking disgust me.

Just needed that put down here.
Not enough punctuation in the posts, I know. Next time I shall endevour to help fix this by writing perfectly in my first post and stating that I want this example copied in every post henceforth.

I am sorry for this remission and it's really all my fault. I blame myself. But to ensure this doesn't bother you in the future, I will change my wicked ways.
 

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http://www.facebook.com/groups/484004694975876/?ref=ts&fref=ts

Facebook groups like that.

They're all still invalid now aren't they?
Facebook groups are invalid just on the fact that their facebook groups alone.
 

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tyriless said:
-equal pay for equal work
-a woman's right to do with her body what she wants
-a woman's worth is not inherently tied to her ability to reproduce and a man's desire to copulate with her
- a fair representation of women and men in management positions
- a women or men having to endure sexual harassment to maintain or progress through their career.
I believe in
-equal pay for equal work
-a human's right to do with her body what she wants
-a human's worth is not inherently tied to their ability to reproduce and other's desire to copulate with her
-one should employ the best person for the job, regardless of gender or race
-nobody should have to endure any kind of harassment to maintain or progress through their career.

I am not a feminist. I am more realistic, and more compassionate than that.
 

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Father Time said:
Then what was the point of your posting? You offered no explanations, nor links to explanations and when called out you just refuse to give more.
I posted because I'm entitled to opinions of my own. However, this is not my job. I don't get paid to educate you, or to explain things to you, and if I can't even trust that you would bother to read my response I have absolutely no desire to try.

I've been ignoring you because I have spent hours giving explanations on this thread, and yet you couldn't be arsed to spend 10 minutes fully reading a single post. What would be different if I responded to you directly? What would be different if I spent more hours looking for materials weren't behind a paywall? What would be different if I gave you a reading list? Would you go off and read anything on it? Current evidence suggests not, you've clearly never bothered to read anything on this subject in your life, why would you start now?

You don't want to learn. I don't want to teach you. But I'm still entitled to my opinion. I know that might sound weird and all, but unfortunately it's true.
 

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...Seriously? Alright, time to bust out the image. I am busting out the image now.

The image has been bust out now.


I mean, just... What's the point? The purpose of this thread is literally point and laugh at people who think differently to you? About feminism of all things? Yeah, that'll end well.
Made my day! lol
 

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tyriless said:
zehydra said:
I don't need feminism.

What we do need though, is acceptance for stepping outside gender norms.

I like a couple of Feminism's ideas, but the whole movement itself is corrupted.
Like with every goddamn movement you are going to have your outliers, folks that take the central ideas to an extreme. Most of the time, they are idiots. However, if you believe in and support any of these:

-equal pay for equal work
-a woman's right to do with her body what she wants
-a woman's worth is not inherently tied to her ability to reproduce and a man's desire to copulate with her
- a fair representation of women and men in management positions
- a women or men having to endure sexual harassment to maintain or progress through their career.

then you are feminist. If you believe in none of these, you are huge dick.
I do believe in those, but I do not consider myself a feminist.
 

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I guess Third Wave Feminism is what was going for. And the absence of a goal is what concerns me.
It's really difficult to pin down what third wave feminism actually is, because noone really came out and said "I'm a third wave feminist". It's generally quite a dismissive term. Actually I think the differences between different "waves" of feminism is generally hugely overstated. The only thing that I can see really "changed" in third wave feminist theory is what has been retroactively termed "queer theory", and I'll get onto that in a minute because you mentioned something interesting later on.

I guess you could say the third wave is the point at which feminism had become such a broad part of society as a whole that the organized element of it (which had been ailing for a while) kind of broke down. It's probably no coincidence that the 90s also gave us concepts like "girl power" and "real women", which I think get caught up in the critique of the "third wave". I guess you can't be a social force without also being a market. ;)

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The latter would only be recapitulating the theory in the hopes that there will some kind of spontaneous enlightenment amongst the privileged group, even though the impossibility of this enlightenment is a core axiom of the theory in the first place.
I disagree..

If privileged people could not grasp the meaning of privilege, we would never had had white civil rights activists, we would never have had male pro-feminists (and we have, at every stage of feminist history), we wouldn't have LGBT allies. A concept like privilege is very difficult to convey to someone who has it, very few people naturally sees themselves as privileged, very few people believe that their life is great and the reason is because they're a man, or because they're straight, or because they're white. They think their lives suck, and the reason it's so hard to argue with that is that they're kind of right.

And actually, this is where the "third wave" can really help. But again, more on that later.

TheLion said:
To the contrary, I want it to evolve beyond theory. The theory is the beginning, not an end in and of itself. It's used to establish a foundation of political thought upon which you act.
And I would argue that there is huge amounts of action in our society.

You asked something earlier along the lines of "how is feminism going to destroy gender roles?" That's actually a very good question, because it's been a tension in feminism for a very long time. Gender exists, it has thousands of years of history and meaning. In order to mitigate the effect it has on our lives, the "feminist movement" had to to invoke that meaning themselves, to advocate and represent and speak for "men" and for "women". They had to acknowledge the existence of these things. They had to draw commonalities between all men and between all women, as well as differences between the two. Feminism could argue that men and women should be equal, but (however much its own theory pointed out that these things were arbitrary and produced by society) it could not challenge their existence.

Over time, it became apparent that, shock, not all women were actually the same. That as much as they were part of this category of "women", there were other things about them which made them different from each other. Some were white, and others were black or came from other ethnic minorities. Some were gay, others were straight and others were bisexual or what we would now call transgendered. Some were comparatively wealthy or well educated, while others were poor and had little formal education. Feminism had claimed to speak for all of these women as if they were a coherent category, but the reality is that they did not have a common identity so much as a common purpose, and as that purpose came closer to completion people felt less and less identification with the movement. That is why I rail so strongly against the idea of a feminist movement today, it kind of fell apart, and for me at least that was a good thing. Yes, there are still feminists out there who whine about the lack of organized movement today and think it's terrible, but I think they're missing the point. The ability to be more than just "women" is exactly what feminism had been arguing for, the breakdown was actually another step on the path to mission accomplished.

But yeah.. we still have gender, we still have gendered norms and gendered roles. Feminism changed them, but it really got us no closer to getting rid of them, in fact some strands of feminism have probably contributed to these things by creating a new kind of consciousness among women which emphasized their shared experience and similarity at the expense of the enormous differences between them. Popular feminism can be godawful, it's Gerri Halliwell in union jack bikini talking about how having babies is "girl power" levels of awful. It's Julie Burchill ranting about "trannies" taking over from "real women" levels of awful (sorry, these are all British references).

But the fact is, there is a huge political battle about gender going on very publicly and visibly right now, and it's not feminist, but it's there. It's there because there already is gender non-conformity in our society. It's more visible than ever before, to the point where celebrities now engage in it openly and where kids now grow up aware of things which, 50 years ago you couldn't even put in a film or books without risking censorship. I'm talking, of course, about the push for LGBT rights.

The same queer theory which feminists whine has no political application and can't possibly help the cause is being applied politically as we speak to the detriment of traditional gender roles. It's not the only voice in the LGBT rights lobby, it's not even the dominant voice, but certain ideas from it are already employed as rhetorical tactics in the effort to to win that debate and as such it is filtering into society. Put it this way, I don't know a single person under 40 who is in any way involved in LGBT activism (beyond showing up at Pride) and who has not read or tried to read Gender Trouble.

Why is this important? Because "normative" ideas of gender have always been formed in opposition to non-conformity. Being a "real man" has been contingent on being heterosexual and cisgendered for as long as these ideas exist. A world in which fucking other men or having been born female-bodied has no bearing on what kind of man you are is already, to a large extent, a world in which gender norms have been destroyed.

Don't mistake the absence of a political feminist movement for the absence of political application of gender theory.

Yeah, I kinda rushed the ending there.. sorry if doesn't make sense, I need to walk the dog and this post is long enough.
 

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FreedomofInformation said:
Muspelheim said:
Oh, faith and begora, would you look at all them lovely strawmen!

Don't worry, lads, I doubt evil hairy ladies will confiscate your dick in the dark of the night...
Of course they'd never do such a thing.

They'd collude with the state to do it instead like allowing women to commit paternity fraud and throw men in jail when they don't pay up. Spend more money on healthcare. Allow women to falsely cry rape without consequence. Have more men die in combat or at work. Treat men worse in the court and prison system.
I think its telling that almost all of those points are a consequence of decisions and rules made by male leaders. For instance, women weren't the ones who got to decide that women couldn't be drafted, it was men who decided on their behalf, usually with the mindset that women weren't capable of much beyond cooking, cleaning and basic menial labour. We've had to wait this long before US women are permitted to serve in front lines combat, which is something women long campaigned for.

I'm not going to deny the one about women getting more lenient sentencing, though again, we have way more male judges than female judges. Go figure.
 

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I only read the OP so far, and I already need to ask a very important question...

Those people, are they absolutely honest, with no irony or sarcasm intended?

Because all of those pictures sound pretty damn stupid to me.
 

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boots said:
TomLikesGuitar said:
Rape Culture:

"Hey everyone, this one specific horrible event is actually everyone's fault. You should all feel bad because you all contribute to every single rape just by being alive."
Nice straw man, buddy. Were you working on that one for a while?

Actually, rape culture = "Hey, you know that rape? Turns out is wasn't the rapist's fault after all. It was the rape victim. She was asking for it"
Normally, we call that stupidity. It exists in all genders and in all cultures.

Some people say that it´s the fault of the raped that they got raped. Those people contribute to rape culture. Okay. I can buy that. Now please explain how someone who has never said anything of the sort is still contributing to this so-called "rape culture", then we can talk.
 

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tyriless said:
zehydra said:
I don't need feminism.

What we do need though, is acceptance for stepping outside gender norms.

I like a couple of Feminism's ideas, but the whole movement itself is corrupted.
Like with every goddamn movement you are going to have your outliers, folks that take the central ideas to an extreme. Most of the time, they are idiots. However, if you believe in and support any of these:

-equal pay for equal work
-a woman's right to do with her body what she wants
-a woman's worth is not inherently tied to her ability to reproduce and a man's desire to copulate with her
- a fair representation of women and men in management positions
- a women or men having to endure sexual harassment to maintain or progress through their career.

then you are feminist. If you believe in none of these, you are huge dick.

So wait... believing in equality makes me a feminist? By that logic, since I believe in equality for both sexes, wouldn't that also make me a supporter of the MRA?

If women want equality, stop acting like you're different than men. God shit like this makes me sick... Be a fucking human being, not your gender.

Captcha- tastes good (im not going near that with a 10 ft pole on this thread)
 

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boots said:
awesomeClaw said:
[It exists in all genders and in all cultures.
And in the US government [http://feministphilosophers.files.wordpress.com/2012/11/gop_rape_advisory_megachart.gif].

Some people say that it´s the fault of the raped that they got raped. Those people contribute to rape culture. Okay. I can buy that. Now please explain how someone who has never said anything of the sort is still contributing to this so-called "rape culture", then we can talk.
Go back to the first page and actually read the sign that the guy is holding up. Does it say, "I automatically contribute to rape culture because I am a man"?

I'll save you the click. The sign simply states that he contributes to rape culture without knowing it, as do many people. When someone says something like, "If you don't want to get raped, you shouldn't walk around late at night/wear that skirt/lead guys on," they are contributing to rape culture. Chances are that they will have no idea that they're doing it. Chances are they think rape is an awful, terrible thing and their statements are well-intentioned. This doesn't change the fact that statements like this put the responsibility for preventing rape onto the victims, and also perpetuate the misandrist view that men "just can't help themselves" when they see an attractive, vulnerable girl.
Thank you, boots, for being a voice of reason, but really, as my captcha says; let go. As you said in the first pace, it's time to leave. It was then, it is now. You are changing no one's mind here, no matter how much we would like to.

Just ... just rest, mate. Really. There are better, more productive places where such arguments can be ministered, and it most definitely is not here. Seeking a discussion on feminism thought and theory in here is an exercise in futility.
 

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TomLikesGuitar said:
Rape culture is the concept that the average person perpetuates the "she was asking for it" concept through social and cultural means.

In other words, rape culture points a finger at me and says that I contribute to rape culture for being a man. That's insane.

Very few people ACTUALLY believe that a girl who wears certain clothes is "asking for it" (not enough to call it "rape culture"), and you know what, if a girl is a at a party with a lot of drinking going on and some equally drunk guy has sex with her, it's not rape. If she is conscious then who cares if she's black out drunk, she's making a decision to sleep with a guy. You are responsible for the decisions you make while inebriated.

I've been in the position where a girl came up to me at a party, pulled me downstairs to her room, begged me to fuck her, and then passed out. When she woke up, she told her boyfriend (who she neglected to mention the night prior) that I'd raped her.

After a long conversation that was almost a huge brawl, he left her for being a whore (and we're actually good friends now). However, she was so infuriated by this that she took the matter to fucking court.

Yeah, I won the case, but I had to go to jail on a rape trial because at first glance, it's ALWAYS the guy's fault.

Rape culture my ass...
I would definitely say you suffered a severe injustice, and I would definitely say that the girl was so in the wrong it is frightening, but tell me, why do you say "rape culture my ass" when you were a blatant victim of it? Wouldn't you say you, yourself, were the victim of this rape culture? After all, part of that very culture is the notion that men can't control themselves when they see a hot chick in a sexy outfit, which obviously leads to blaming men at once and leading to the very misandric notion that men neither have the brains or the control to keep from raping, making them automatically guilty of it upon accusation, as you were.

As the captcha says, man, walk free. Think about it.
 

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He was still tossed into jail outright. I don't know about you, boots, but I would say that is a pretty big foul of justice systems, and it's a foul that happens often in rape cases, where the wrong person can often be found tried, convicted and slammed. The accusation alone is injustice enough when one considers the public and private perspectives of a person. Such a thing can end relationships, break families, which not even a "not guilty" verdict can clear.

So yes, I would say it is tremendously unfair. Rape is no light matter or word to bandy about, and criminal justice systems across the world should be dilligent and fair in investigating the veracity of claims made, under risk of trivializing the issue in the eyes of the law and society itself.
 

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boots said:
I'll save you the click. The sign simply states that he contributes to rape culture without knowing it, as do many people. When someone says something like, "If you don't want to get raped, you shouldn't walk around late at night/wear that skirt/lead guys on," they are contributing to rape culture. Chances are that they will have no idea that they're doing it. Chances are they think rape is an awful, terrible thing and their statements are well-intentioned. This doesn't change the fact that statements like this put the responsibility for preventing rape onto the victims, and also perpetuate the misandrist view that men "just can't help themselves" when they see an attractive, vulnerable girl.
Part of it is down to practicality, though. Certain towns are bad with crime - in such towns, going out in a short skirt or what have you probably would be inadvisable as it'd put the girl in question at risk of rape. Is advising the girl not to do that in these places contributing to rape culture or helping her avoid being the victim of a horrible crime?
 

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OhJohnNo said:
boots said:
I'll save you the click. The sign simply states that he contributes to rape culture without knowing it, as do many people. When someone says something like, "If you don't want to get raped, you shouldn't walk around late at night/wear that skirt/lead guys on," they are contributing to rape culture. Chances are that they will have no idea that they're doing it. Chances are they think rape is an awful, terrible thing and their statements are well-intentioned. This doesn't change the fact that statements like this put the responsibility for preventing rape onto the victims, and also perpetuate the misandrist view that men "just can't help themselves" when they see an attractive, vulnerable girl.
Part of it is down to practicality, though. Certain towns are bad with crime - in such towns, going out in a short skirt or what have you probably would be inadvisable as it'd put the girl in question at risk of rape. Is advising the girl not to do that in these places contributing to rape culture or helping her avoid being the victim of a horrible crime?
It's saying `Make sure he rapes some other girl`.
All in all, not that helpful.
(And also, women KNOW that shit. They don't need to be told over and over and rape magically doesn't stop happening if someone wears jeans instead of a mini skirt).
 

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boots said:
awesomeClaw said:
[It exists in all genders and in all cultures.
And in the US government [http://feministphilosophers.files.wordpress.com/2012/11/gop_rape_advisory_megachart.gif].

Some people say that it´s the fault of the raped that they got raped. Those people contribute to rape culture. Okay. I can buy that. Now please explain how someone who has never said anything of the sort is still contributing to this so-called "rape culture", then we can talk.
Go back to the first page and actually read the sign that the guy is holding up. Does it say, "I automatically contribute to rape culture because I am a man"?

I'll save you the click. The sign simply states that he contributes to rape culture without knowing it, as do many people. When someone says something like, "If you don't want to get raped, you shouldn't walk around late at night/wear that skirt/lead guys on," they are contributing to rape culture. Chances are that they will have no idea that they're doing it. Chances are they think rape is an awful, terrible thing and their statements are well-intentioned. This doesn't change the fact that statements like this put the responsibility for preventing rape onto the victims, and also perpetuate the misandrist view that men "just can't help themselves" when they see an attractive, vulnerable girl.
As I said, in all cultures and genders, and perhaps I should add "in every aspect of society."

Let me get one thing straight - genuinly blaming the victime for rape is an awful, disgusting thing. But I don´t think that´s what most people are doing. I just think that they haven´t thought about how they expressed themselves. It is simply a piece of advice. If I tell my friend not to walk into the ghetto at night with hundred-dollar bills sticking out of his pocket if he doesn´t want to get robbed, am I contributing to "Burglar Culture?" If I tell my other friend not to agree to buying viagra on the internet if he doesn´t want to be scammed, am I contributing to "Fraud Culture"? And at last, if I don´t say anything ridiculous and unproven (Such as "don´t wear x clothing or do y while flirting!") is it wrong of me to give sensible advice in the form of "Don´t go out at night without anyone with you if you don´t want to get raped."? If I said "It´s your fault if you get raped at night", that´s a diffrent matter, but as it goes, I´m just hittin´ my homie up with some advice-cookies.

And of course, so no words can be put in my mouth, judges berating the rape victims choice of clothing is cruel and stupid. But we need to realise that we giving out advice, even if it is faulty /= blaming the victim.
 

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boots said:
Yeah, apparently those rapists are really turned on by Potterheads.
Of course, and all rape is stranger rape except when it isn't and then you shouldn't have trusted a man around you in the first place but not wanting a dude around you is totally paranoid and you totally shouldn't have been doing/wearing that thing.
And I've gone cross-eyed.
 

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boots said:
-snippinism-
Now now, don't get me wrong - there's no way to excuse anyone saying "she asked for it". It's a bullshit excuse to use on any crime, let alone rape.

Still, you guys make good points. I like that you bring up the issue that bothers lots of people about feminism (the idea that it blames your average male for rapes happening - it doesn't, obviously).