First of all, you can stop saying we're afraid of the big bad moderators like they're going to shank my daughter or something if I disagree with them, because that's just silly.
Secondly, there have been unfair things that happen on this forum. Having been someone that was suspended herself I can say its somewhat incredulous that I can have heated arguments about FF with rabid fanboys that basically foam putrescent attacks on my intelligence but the moment I say something about facebook I was suspended certainly seems to be a rather inconsistent thing at best, but at the same time I never reported these people nor did I really feel the need to, I like to think Im more adult than that.
That out of my system, it -is- much better here than just about any other forum I have been to. The rules are clear and mostly consistently enforced and they're not made up on the spot to support some sort of forum dictatorship. I think people get far too upset and indignant about that kind of thing. These people don't have to provide a forum any more than I have to spend my time posting here, so acting as if a forum has to be moderated in some certain way is kind of unrealistic, and fairly pretentious I think.
So I guess the thrust of the thing to me is - could it be better? Certainly. There's always things that can be handled better and ways it can improve. But it also could be a lot worse, and as someone that frequents a lot of fora, I can say that this one is well above the median as far as quality of both membership and moderation goes.
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Also, Im not a moderator here myself, but this kind of thread would be locked by myself on a forum that I moderate. It's just causing needless tension, conflict, and negativity for the sake of getting a point across, and disrupting a forum to get a point across seems an awful lot like trolling.
In light of that second thought I guess I shouldn't've posted, but eh well.