Poll: Lying to get laid is OK?
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I blame this stupid rule where people are supposed to "have things in common".
And you've all lied, you've all said you like some shitty actor, film, book, band or whatever, maybe not to get laid, maybe only to be liked or to fit in.
YOU HAVE ALL DONE IT.
And that's really all "lying to get laid" is, misrepresenting some details about who you are to not seem so pathetic/desperate/insecure/perverted/lonely which we all are to one degree or another and that's totally fine in my eyes.
Well, except in cases of infidelity, in which case you are an arsewipe.
And you've all lied, you've all said you like some shitty actor, film, book, band or whatever, maybe not to get laid, maybe only to be liked or to fit in.
YOU HAVE ALL DONE IT.
And that's really all "lying to get laid" is, misrepresenting some details about who you are to not seem so pathetic/desperate/insecure/perverted/lonely which we all are to one degree or another and that's totally fine in my eyes.
Well, except in cases of infidelity, in which case you are an arsewipe.
are you (i mean you in a general sense, not as in, the OP) really that desperate. maybe im just old fashioned, but i dont get any satisfaction from sleeping with someone with whom im not in a serious relationship. if i dont deeply care about someone, having sex with them will be about as satisfying as jerking off. since i view sex as the physical representation of your feelings for someone, and i wouldnt lie to someone i care about, no i dont think lying to have sex is okay. im not saying youre a horrible person if you do, its just not something i would ever do.
and im happily surprised by the amount of people who chose "No" in the poll
and im happily surprised by the amount of people who chose "No" in the poll
whilst I wouldn't, if you're planning a one night stand then what's the harm?
it just adds to the fun a one-nighter is basically a role-play event anyway
if your in a situation where you might hurt someone, then absolutely not.
it just adds to the fun a one-nighter is basically a role-play event anyway
if your in a situation where you might hurt someone, then absolutely not.
sorry but woman > hands for me its just more fun it's more than possible to connect with someone for just one night and get it right, if your still single why not try it?00slash00 said:
"I haven't seen you in this bar before [LIE] Do you come here often?"
"Not really [LIE]. Thanks for the drink though, this cocktail is my favourite [LIE]. And thans for buying a drink for my girlfriends too"
"Oh yeah, I love this drink too [LIE]. It's no problem [LIE]. Your friends seem really nice [LIE]"
"Yes my friends [LIE], they are not usually like that [LIE], Mary has had a couple of drinks too many [LIE]"
"This music is awesome [LIE], but I can barely hear you [LIE], do you want to go somewhere quiet to talk? [LIE]"
And so on and so forth.
"Not really [LIE]. Thanks for the drink though, this cocktail is my favourite [LIE]. And thans for buying a drink for my girlfriends too"
"Oh yeah, I love this drink too [LIE]. It's no problem [LIE]. Your friends seem really nice [LIE]"
"Yes my friends [LIE], they are not usually like that [LIE], Mary has had a couple of drinks too many [LIE]"
"This music is awesome [LIE], but I can barely hear you [LIE], do you want to go somewhere quiet to talk? [LIE]"
And so on and so forth.
Everyone lies for sex. The difference is between lying to deceive and lying to please.
Former, No. Latter, Maybe.
Former, No. Latter, Maybe.
Even when looking out for a one night stand, you still owe it to any women worth your time to respect her. Lying is disrespectful, and meaning no harm has nothing to do in the debate.
I don't get this idea that if a woman is willing to do a one night stand, she's not worth being honest with.
I don't get this idea that if a woman is willing to do a one night stand, she's not worth being honest with.
Eh, I don't lie as such, more enhance the truth to make my stories sound better. It's not even a conscious thing, it just happens, I like to make my stories more interesting!
To be honest there is a very broad spectrum of possible scenarios and possible actions to take, as such this poll is fairly meaningless.
To be honest there is a very broad spectrum of possible scenarios and possible actions to take, as such this poll is fairly meaningless.
Having principles is easy, breaking them on the other hand is surprisingly easier. I doubt that all those saying "lying makes you a douche" can also turn around and say that they have never once in their life told a lie. Thus making anyone making such a proclamation is themselves automatically a douche.9thRequiem said:
No of course it's not, lying to get laid is such a douchebag move. If you can't get in bed with a girl by just being yourself then that's your problem.
Did you actually think this through at all. Everyone lies, particularly in the early stages of a relationship:Kungfu_Teddybear said:
When asked the question "Do you like my hair?" almost any man will answer: "Yes you look beautiful not "No it looks fucking awful". Particularly a man who is trying to get laid.
Pro-tip: When a woman asks "What are you thinking?" Lie to her. Seriously. It's just easier that way.
Lying is part of the social contract. It is necessary to maintain human relationships.