This.Lord Garnaat said:The way I see sex before marriage is this: I would prefer people didn't, but there isn't anything that can be done to stop it. If I met a girl whom I genuinely loved, and it turned out she wasn't a virgin, I would look past it because it isn't overly important. I feel that sleeping around is an unnecessary complication, but I wouldn't let it get in the way of things that are more crucial to a happy relationship than that.
I'm perfectly fine (and actively strive) to remain a virgin until the right one shows up, because I highly value monogamy. I'm wolf-like that way.
It has little to do with innocence and more to do with commitment, but that's not what the OP is trying to get at. In terms of innocence... well, no one's truly innocent, so why does it matter?