I think your own virginity is really the only one that should matter, and there is a lot of pressure about losing it and it has to be "perfect" blah blah....
(But if you're the experienced one and the other girl/guy is a virgin, than you should treat it as your 1st time again. It's a big thing for them so you should at least try to make it special)
But really it's the biggest deal in the world, right until the moment it's gone, then, not so much. I wish I could tell my younger self not to worry so much and it'll happen when it happens. It was enjoyable, no regrets from me, with a friend I had known for a while, I had fun, she had fun....definitely puts a little spring in your step the day after!
But, personally, there is a line between not being a virgin and doing every guy/girl that saunters past. One is ok and wouldn't bother me too much, the other makes me kinda wary!
(But if you're the experienced one and the other girl/guy is a virgin, than you should treat it as your 1st time again. It's a big thing for them so you should at least try to make it special)
But really it's the biggest deal in the world, right until the moment it's gone, then, not so much. I wish I could tell my younger self not to worry so much and it'll happen when it happens. It was enjoyable, no regrets from me, with a friend I had known for a while, I had fun, she had fun....definitely puts a little spring in your step the day after!
But, personally, there is a line between not being a virgin and doing every guy/girl that saunters past. One is ok and wouldn't bother me too much, the other makes me kinda wary!