Other reasons: I emphatize with this kid and want them to have a better life then they would otherwise have. (Source: Family I know adopted 3 kids while working in South Korea.)Monoochrom said:So? Your point? Seriously, what the fuck is your point. It's a person, great, doesn't mean I or the majority of the rest of the world has any reason to give a shit. The biological parents shouldn't have made it, doesn't make it my problem.Smiley Face said:Because the damaged goods you're talking about are people.Monoochrom said:I'm sorry, did I at any point give you reason to believe that I give a fuck what you want? Nope.Wenseph said:You're not the kind of person I want to discuss with.Monoochrom said:Why would anyone go for damaged goods when they don't have to?Wenseph said:Yeah............................. Except that people in rich countries use a lot of the resources and adopting from overpopulated countries would still be better than getting more than one child.Mortai Gravesend said:Um, but the country someone is living in may not be overpopulated. Looking at it on a global scale doesn't seem very productive. For instance in Japan they really could use more people having kids. Certain countries are overpopulated, others are not.Wenseph said:I think that having more than one child is very selfish. The planet is already overpopulated and that's just you, who already had a child then gets another one for no real reason. It's not beneficial to anyone, except you and not really that either.
Adopting is kind of good I guess, but I wouldn't do it.
Why should anyone deal with the hasstle of not only adopting the kid, but then actually raising it?
You realize that you don't just have those feelings for any 1 child, matter of fact, relationsships shatter because the child or a parent do not build up a good relationship to one another.
Or how about that they will typically be another ethnicity entirely? Also a issue bound to cause complications.
Or that the kid could be coming from any given situation.
Seriously, it seriously is like saying ''Why won't anybody go for the damaged goods that are harder to get then the brand new stuff? herp derp''
HA HA HA HA HA HABecause they're only damaged insofar as they don't have parents.
No. You don't really believe that, do you? You really think that them not having parents does nothing to them? Or that they aren't up for adoption for entirely different reasons, such as having been removed from a Household? What about Diseases?
When I want a kid I'm not looking to improve the life of someone pre-existing, I'm looking to improve my own.Because you're actively improving someone's life.
You don't get to leave the constraints of the question. Very simple situation, your own children are a perfectly viable option. No reason to adopt some random kid, all it does is cause problems.Because your own genes mean that maybe having children isn't the greatest idea when adoption is viable.
Doesn't seem like a good reason to me, but whatever I'll let you have that.Because maybe some people don't want to go through the physical trauma of giving birth when they don't have to.
Look it up, you'll find that you are wrong.Because blood-ties, ethnicity, and love don't have to have anything to do with one another, and any reasonable couple and their reasonable adopted kid can probably find a way to see that.
Yes, it does.Hell, my relationship with my parents has nothing to do with the fact that I happen to have the same genes as them,
No, not really, the only reasons are:except when my dad projects on me and erroneously interprets personality quirks as OCD.
There's plenty of reasons for adoption.
I am already insanely rich and this is very much like getting a souvenir
I can't have children of my own and other more natural options either also do not work or do not appeal to me.
I'm just wierd like that.
Those are the only reasons.
I knew the parents of the orhpaned child, so I want to take care of them.
You seem like a closeminded and narcisistic person, with an inflated ego. What do you actually know to make you an authority on this subject? Have you studied adopted families, talked to them, seen how they live?
Close relationships with your parents has nothing to do with blood ties or ethnicity. If there were, then you could see that adopted families have far worse relations than "normal" families. But thats not true is it? There are blood families where every one hates each other, and there are adopted families where everyone loves each other.
[qoute]When I want a kid I'm not looking to improve the life of someone pre-existing, I'm looking to improve my own.[/qoute]
Wow... just wow... Thats pretty much the worst reason to have kids. You arent going to have any "close ties" with your kids if you keep that attitude around. You are talking about creating and taking care of people, this has nothing to do with improving your life. Its not like shopping for cereal.