Poll: Are gamers good in bed?
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I don't really have any experience sleeping with gamers...the one Otaku I was with wasn't terrible. More than anything though I'm curious to see how many gamers are asexual like me. Same for Otaku as well I suppose.
Rating yourself is a fallacious research technique. Everyone thinks they are Ron Jeremy or Dirk Diggler. If you want to know how good I am, ask the 3 women who broke up with me (or I them), then cheated on their new boyfriends because they wanted my cock inside them again. One of them cheated on four different guys with me. I hated her. I wanted to ruin her life, so I fucked her brains out then made her live with the shame of being a cheater. I never cheated, though.Jarek Mace said:
Also, my gamer girlfriend was horrible in bed, I had to teach her everything, and then when we broke up she forgot it all and our multiple liaisons after that kind of sucked...
I'm pretty sure it's wholly impossible to say gamers as a collective are good or bad in bed. It's the same as any other cross section of society, you'll have some good and some bad. You can't really just make a blanket statement like that, it's gonna be different from person to person. There's that whole "gamers/nerds are virgins" stigma that still goes around, so I doubt our reputation is all that stellar. But whatever, most people are lame anyways.
As far as me personally, I can't speak to my own efficacy without an obvious bias, but I have been told I perform far above expectation. Which is cool I guess, but sex is not really something I go out of my way for. I'm far more interested in the emotional aspect of it. Living alone a hemisphere away from everyone you grew up with tends to have that effect I suppose. I'd rather have someone special to hold and come home to than a bunch of randoms I can fuck whenever. Maybe I'm crazy.
As far as me personally, I can't speak to my own efficacy without an obvious bias, but I have been told I perform far above expectation. Which is cool I guess, but sex is not really something I go out of my way for. I'm far more interested in the emotional aspect of it. Living alone a hemisphere away from everyone you grew up with tends to have that effect I suppose. I'd rather have someone special to hold and come home to than a bunch of randoms I can fuck whenever. Maybe I'm crazy.
Well, having slept my way through my college gaming club, I have a rather unique perspective on this. My answer?rbstewart7263 said:
It varies.
I'm considered quite good. Moreover, my gamer spouse is very good in bed. That's one of the reasons I married my spouse. **grin**
I've slept with a number of other gamers, and at least one "just lays there" and another one was "meh, okay" and another was "fairly good, but not great".
So yeah, gamers fall in the whole gambit of sexual skill, from the bad to great.
All that said, I don't think being a gamer really has a specific effect on one's sexual skill. It really depends on the individual - which is exactly what it depends on in the larger population.
You have discovered our people's sceme.Dags90 said:
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OT: Dafuq did I just read?
Thank you for adding the fetid cherry on top of the steaming pile of shit my day has become. It really isnt your fault, I just hate being reminded that the life beyond the confines of mine constantly and persistantly dances infront of my weary eyes as if they play on winds of excitement and adventure.
I am a Gamer, I have a Girlfriend. She tells me im bloody good. I believe her. Simple.
Whether or not I actually am is subjective, and its not for me to state. But I make her happy and she makes me happy. Simple.
That is, if time, luck, fate, luck, time, circumstance, health, location, temperature, luck, the Gods, and luck permit is any slither of privacy.
Yes, im having a bad day.
I am a Gamer, I have a Girlfriend. She tells me im bloody good. I believe her. Simple.
Whether or not I actually am is subjective, and its not for me to state. But I make her happy and she makes me happy. Simple.
That is, if time, luck, fate, luck, time, circumstance, health, location, temperature, luck, the Gods, and luck permit is any slither of privacy.
Yes, im having a bad day.
Well, suffice to say, I probably suck and always will, being the unattractive, awkward, virgin nerd that I am.
Honestly, I'd be surprised if there was a major difference between the general performance of normal people and nerds.
I've always suspected though, that it had little to do with talent or experience, just how attracted to one and other the partners were. True, I know little, but I find it hard to believe that there's any great subtleties to the activity beyond rythm.
Of course, I'm probably wrong.
Honestly, I'd be surprised if there was a major difference between the general performance of normal people and nerds.
I've always suspected though, that it had little to do with talent or experience, just how attracted to one and other the partners were. True, I know little, but I find it hard to believe that there's any great subtleties to the activity beyond rythm.
Of course, I'm probably wrong.
This is a hard one to answer for me. While I have had sex many times, it has been with very few women. Of the ones I have slept with, I tend to have a learning curve. I start out timid and work my way up to "Oh My God!". I honestly think this is true of most people. The "horrible" lays you have had, could be amazing with some practice, and the amazing bedders could start to slack as a relationship progresses.
This is like asking whether people who play cards are good in bed.
I'm a gamer, my sexual performances rang from good, to "oh my god, how did you learn to do that" depending entirely on my innitial mood, my energy level, and how attracted I am to the person I'm with, and unless you suck at sex, or have weird fetishes and try to force em on your partner, I can immagine that that's how most people are.
I honestly don't think gaming has anything to do with it. What is important is maintaining at least moderate physical fitness, and being clean and stuff, like don't eat stuff that gives you bad gas prior to sex... common sense people.
I'm a gamer, my sexual performances rang from good, to "oh my god, how did you learn to do that" depending entirely on my innitial mood, my energy level, and how attracted I am to the person I'm with, and unless you suck at sex, or have weird fetishes and try to force em on your partner, I can immagine that that's how most people are.
I honestly don't think gaming has anything to do with it. What is important is maintaining at least moderate physical fitness, and being clean and stuff, like don't eat stuff that gives you bad gas prior to sex... common sense people.