Recent content by sanomaton

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    Advice needed (regarding an ex)

    This. Thank you. :) I always feel like I'm a terrible person if I say no to something but I am starting to understand it's ok to take care of myself first. I told my ex no and it's not a good idea that he comes here (very gently put) but as expected he got actually quite mad. I didn't respond...
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    Advice needed (regarding an ex)

    Thank you guys so much for the responses. I just messaged him telling I don't feel it's a good idea that he comes here and also that I am busy so I wouldn't have the time for it anyway. (Which isn't even a lie) Silly enough, just moments ago I was convincing myself of letting him come here...
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    Advice needed (regarding an ex)

    Cat didn't say anything, just looked at me curiously after asking such an odd question. Guess that counts as a no. I'm thinking of telling him I gave my cat to my parents, I think that could do it for now... I know this should be obvious and simple but it's really hard for me to say no to...
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    Advice needed (regarding an ex)

    Alright, here goes. I haven't asked advice on something like this before and hopefully I will never have to again. I'm terrible, absolutely terrible, at saying no to people. No matter what I think or how something makes me feel, if someone asks me for something I usually do it. If someone...
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    Clearing up some common misconceptions.

    Have you been watching Penn & Teller? I was thinking about writing about the exactly same misconception... :I Thank you!! I am one of those who have to take the pill for medical/health reasons - without them I start suffering from iron deficiency anaemia. I didn't even want to start taking the...
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    Poll: What is your favorite meat?

    Why has no one mentioned elk meat... That's the best meat you can get! So yeah, I voted for other. Next best might be beef, 'unno...
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    Left handed....

    I actually cried a tiny bit when I played the newest Zelda and I kept wondering what was it that looked so odd about Link... Then it hit me, they changed him so he's right-handed now. I'm a lefty myself so it really felt like a punch in the gut when I realized that... Though I don't think it's...
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    Funky Coloured Hair

    I friggin' love your haircolour, mate! It's awesome :D I wish I could have blue hair like that but it's a pain to keep it looking that good ;o For myself, I dyed my hair bright red for quite the long time but then I stopped because the damage it did to my hair was massive... So my light blond...
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    Your closet to come out of

    Most of my "closet stuff" is sex related, no surprise there. I'm addicted to sex. I have had sex in public, with complete strangers whose names I can't remember anymore, I like being tied up when having sex and some other stuff as well. I wouldn't want people closest to me knowing this stuff...
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    Songs you enjoy despite not having a clue...

    ...Yeah. I speak some Japanese but all I can understand is "go forward" or something according to those lines somewhere in between the lyrics. I like watching the video, although it feels a bit like someone was raping my brains. And eyes. o_o
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    Usually people who threaten their friends about commiting suicide are the ones who DON'T actually go through with it. Harsh, but it's true. When someone wants to commit suicide there may be signs of it but the signs can only be interpretated only after the suicide has taken place. A classmate...
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    Poll: Would you trade the ability to have children for immortality?

    This. 100% this. It's really disturbing. I don't want to live forever, to see everyone I love die and essentially be alone. It would get really lonely, me thinks. And I want to have children, too. So no, no thanks.
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    Poll: Is sex sacred to you?

    Sex is what you make it, sacred if you want it to be or something natural and fun, whatever tickles your fancy. I like having sex. If I'm not in a relationship I enjoy chasing a good looking fella for sex and usually there's nothing more to it, in and out so to speak. As long as there's...
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    Hot drinks and you

    I love having a nice cup of tea every now and then but I can't drink it super hot (burned my tongue too many times...) so I have to let it cool off for a while. And sometimes(always) forget the whole thing so it ends up lukewarm which is bad so I need to heat it up and wait till it cools off...
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    Is it that hard to find a virgin?

    I couldn't agree with this first post more. I also "found" myself a virgin but the story for me goes a bit backwards. I had this idea for the longest time that I did't want to date someone who hadn't been in a relationship before, I really didn't. On a further note, I didn't want to date someone...